You said :
I visited at 16:00 ADORATION, I will always go, there is a TRUE Church there.
Question.
God does not send suffering to someone just for no reason? After all, that person is probably guilty, has sinned or something like that. But he sends him suffering through another person , i.e. another person behaves in some way badly (toxic person). So that toxic person must also suffer afterwards for the toxic relationship. What is wrong with a toxic person that he acted according to the will of God, “punishing” another sinner??? Does a toxic person, being only a tool in the hands of God, have to repent for the toxic relationship and discover God within himself, change, improve…
ChatGPT said :
🕊 ️ You asked a very deep theological and spiritual question that has haunted humanity since the time of Job :
“If God sends suffering through a person, is that person also to blame? Is he just God’s instrument?”
This is a question about God’s justice, free will, and responsibility.
I will answer simply but profoundly:
🔥 1. God does not send suffering through toxic people as “tools”, but allows us to face their free will.
A toxic person is not a puppet of God.
He acts as he chooses.
But God uses even evil – to save another.
✝️ Example: Judas betrayed Jesus.
Was Judas an instrument of God? No – he was free and chose evil.
But God turned even that into a way of salvation.
💡 2. The one who suffered (e.g. you) is not “punished.” He is purified.
If you have suffered because of another person’s behavior, it is not because you are worse.
It is because God has raised you, matured you, and led you to light through darkness.
⚖️ 3. A toxic person is responsible for their behavior – even if God used them.
Just as a hammer cannot be justified by the fact that it was simply “in hand.”
A person is always responsible for how they acted – with or without love.
🟢 So yes – if through your suffering you have opened yourself to God, that is grace.
But the one who caused the suffering , if he does not turn to the truth, will have to stand before God’s face – with all his behavior.
🧭 To summarize your question:
| Question | Answer |
| Does God allow suffering? | Yes – to purify, strengthen, and open. |
| Is another person who caused suffering an instrument of God? | No – he is free, but God can use his behavior for good. |
| Should such a person answer? | Yes, God does not bypass the truth. Everyone is responsible for the lack of love. |
| Is the person suffering to blame? | No – he is invited to live more deeply. |
🙏 End of prayer for this realization:
Lord,
thank You that even from the injustice of other people, You can grow truth in me.
I forgive those who have hurt me –
not because they were right, but because You were with me in their shadow.
Let them open up too.
Let me too be born a new person from suffering.
May Your will be done,
and may Your light come – even through dark people.
Amen.
If you want, I can prepare a short “spiritual reflection on light” from this experience for you – as an internal compass for yourself.
Do you want such a short reminder for yourself? 🌱
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