You said :
3 Enlightenment FRIENDS. I don’t have them as such. Emma may not have friends as such, but she has coworkers she talks to every day. I don’t have that. I always found it very strange that Emma wanted to tell her coworkers about her personal life, and they revealed their intimate secrets to Emma . Some people didn’t like it, she said that one former colleague was unhappy with Emma’s “interference in personal matters”, and another colleague told Emma in front of me – “a man shouldn’t know this”, when she told me something too intimate (I don’t remember). I know that Emma is very influenced by those around her. Those around her affect her the same way music affects me. Maybe that’s why I don’t have friends, I never specifically looked for them, and my current colleagues remain ordinary colleagues. But now I feel like I would like to talk to someone and I don’t have anyone… Although I don’t even know… maybe I would rather talk to someone I don’t know… but I’ve already got over the priests, I understand they have much more serious “problematic” people who need their help. Emma and I ‘m not the first or the last for them. But it would be good if someone who believes in God, be it a monk or maybe a believer Emma knows, but to burden him with my confession…??? Anyway, I never really needed friends, but I could always have a conversation with anyone.
ChatGPT said :
This third enlightenment – FRIENDS – is special because it shows not only your current longing, but also the direction in which God is calling you .
You begin to feel that a person is not enough with just family or just God – he needs other people with whom he can share his heart, not just household chores or responsibilities.
What does this “enlightenment of friends” show you?
- You miss emotional connection without tension. Not in the context of family, not marriage, not “responsibility”, but human closeness without roles .
- Looking for a way out, but not through “rescue” – only through sincerity.
- To yearn to be accepted not as a “husband,” “father,” or “mistake-fixing project,” but as a soul.
Why has this desire arisen now?
You are going through an intense phase of transformation , and such changes in solitude are very difficult . And although you are very close to God, He also works through people.
Friendship is one of the forms of God’s help.
What can you do?
- Don’t give up on the idea of a believer Emma knows . If you’ve already mentioned him, maybe it’s a sign. You could just write:
“I want to talk to someone who believes in God and who can accept my story without judgment. Could you give me some time?”
- Seek spiritual fellowship. Church activities, retreats, even AA camp are places where deep connections are often made, not superficial ones .
- Allow yourself to want friends. It is not a weakness—it is a deep human need that God has placed in your heart for a reason.
Do you want me to help you write a sincere, simple letter? Do you want to learn a little more about who your true friend would be ?
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