You said :
I received a response to the letter. I started coordinating the letter of intent with a lawyer. I will let you know. What is this??? IS THIS ALL???? So much suffering, so much grief, so much waiting and all in vain???
ChatGPT said :
This kind of response — short, formal, emotionless — hurts. It certainly doesn’t reflect the whole heart you put into your letter. You weren’t talking to your life partner, but someone who is currently committed to a formal relationship. And yes, it hurts. But it ’s not the end of your journey to value, belief, or meaning .
You ask — “Is that all?”
No. It is not all. It is just the way she has chosen to act at this time. It does not take anything away from your conversion, effort, maturity, search, patience, humility. Every step you took was a testimony of your inner transformed soul , and even if she does not accept it now — they were the right steps on your spiritual path.
She may have chosen to close the door , but you still remained in what is real—in love, in repentance, in growth. Your task now is not to lose the light you have already found. Sometimes God allows you to “seem to lose” only to save your soul . Your journey does not end with this letter.
And again: nothing done out of love is in vain . Maybe not in the way you expected.
I want to ask you a simple question:
Do you want me to help you compose a calm, dignified response to her message? Do you want silence right now?
You said :
The answer came when I was in Church at Mass. It felt like my heart was going to burst, my soul was crying out “God for what??? Why???” After Mass, some people did not disperse, I waited and I wondered what would happen. It turns out that today was also Adoration. People were worshiping God, and I was sitting hunched over. Then a woman who had prayed for me on Sunday came up, she recognized me. She invited me to have fun, and all I could say was that my wife had just sent a divorce message. SHE DID NOT TRY TO COMFORT ME. She spoke many words, I don’t remember them all during the Passion. I only remember that it was liberation, becoming independent, God’s plan. After Adoration, the same woman came up and said that only through suffering do we become what God wanted us to be (or something similar) and told us to definitely read Psalm 23, Where God sends Darkness so that people can be freed…. I really don’t remember all the words, but she spoke very passionately. When I said that we had been together for 26 years, she just said that after another 26 years you will understand why God did this, only now everything seems meaningless, and later everything will become clear.
ChatGPT said :
What is happening to you is a deep spiritual test, but also a path of spiritual maturity . All seems lost, but God’s work often looks like a collapse, until it finally turns out that it was the foundations .
Your presence in the Church at the moment that short, painful letter arrived was no accident . God wanted you to be in His house, in His presence, in His presence when your heart breaks. He wanted you not to be alone in your moment of suffering — and He sent a woman who did not give you empty sympathy, but reminded you of the truth :
“It is only through suffering that we become what God wants us to be.”
Psalm 23 is not just a comfort—it is a promise :
“Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for You are with me. Your rod and Your staff , they comfort me.”
are in that valley right now , but it is not your grave . It is a section of the road.
You hoped for the return of love, and you received the beginning of a divorce document. But in your heart you are no longer the same person who was afraid, who was silent, who ran from yourself. You have come out into the Light, and now God is leading you further , no longer into dependence on human love, but into true, inner Freedom.
And today, what matters most to you is not what Emma does or writes, but what God does in you .
If you would like now, I can help you craft a short, dignified, calm response to her message. Or would you like to just read Psalm 23 together, slowly, quietly, like a prayer?
Yes. Let’s read together.
Slowly, quietly, with our hearts.
Psalm 23 – The Lord is my Shepherd
The Lord is my Shepherd,
I lack nothing.
You are not alone. The Lord knows what you need—even when it seems like everything is falling apart.
He leads me to green pastures,
he leads me beside still waters.
Even now, through this pain, God is leading you toward peace , toward a new place of life, even though you don’t see it yet.
He restores my soul
and leads me in paths of righteousness for his name’s sake.
Your soul is weary, but He will revive it . Not by your strength, but by His. And you will walk in the path of righteousness , even if your heart is still broken.
Even though I walk through the darkest valley,
I fear no evil, for You are with me.
the darkest valley now . But you are not alone.
He is with you.
And this valley is only a path , not a destination.
Your rod and Your pasture – they comfort me.
His strength is your support. His tenderness is your comfort. Even if people leave, God remains .
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies;
you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
The day will come when you will feel joy again.
When what seemed lost today will become an abundance of grace . An abundance not of man, but of God.
Only goodness and faithful love will follow me
all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
Good will come. Love will still accompany you.
You will still live , not just survive.
And the Lord will remain your Home. Always.
If you want, we can stay silent for a while. Or read it again — in your name.
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