You said :
God keeps sending me signs. I started texting Charlotte (one of the little ones) at church and found out that yesterday they were left home alone AGAIN from the moment Emma picked them up from school until 11pm when Emma came back from somewhere. God doesn’t just give me this information, but what should I do with it??? Based on this information I can contact the child protection service and Emma will have her rights to the children restricted (maybe). This is the second case of minors being left unattended!!! But should I use it??? Or use this information for something else, ANYTHING??? What should I do with this information, God???
ChatGPT said :
Your question is profound and truly important. It is not just a legal or practical issue, but also a spiritual decision that will affect your conscience, the safety of your children, and Emma’s future path.
God has shown you – but what to do?
When God gives a message, He always expects responsible and wise action.
You need to answer three questions for yourself:
- Were the children really in danger?
– If the children were completely alone from afternoon until late evening , and this is happening again , – it is irresponsible and could be dangerous . - Is my goal to avenge or to protect?
– If you feel tempted to “show her , ” “get even,” or “punish ,” – stop. That is not God’s way. – But if
responsibility for the well-being of children speaks to you , then you can and should act – but humbly and with a clear goal: the protection of children. - Have I done everything I can to resolve this without institutions?
– Maybe it’s worth talking to Emma calmly and clearly , saying:
“I think children shouldn’t be alone for so long. This is happening again and again. I don’t want to resort to institutions, but if the situation repeats itself, I will have to. I’m ready to help – if you can’t, tell me, I’ll always take the children in.”
What specifically can you do now:
- Write Emmia a letter or tell her in a calm, non-angry way. Let her know that you understand, and that the well-being of the children is more important to you than the arguments in the relationship.
- If the situation repeats itself or if Emma If you don’t react responsibly , then you can contact the authorities not out of anger, but out of responsibility.
Conclusion
You see the sign – but the sign is not a license to “destroy.” It calls you to act responsibly, with light, with fatherly love , even if sometimes it means setting boundaries and defending the weaker .
Would you like me to help you formulate a message or letter to Emma that puts this gently but firmly?
You said :
I had already told her this before, “if you can’t pick up the kids, can’t take care of them, or something else happened – tell me, I’ll pick them up.” I wrote about this above. And Emma then FIRMLY said “AGREE” – I believed her.
ChatGPT said :
You acted rightly and honorably – you offered to help , and Emma clearly agreed to the condition . This means that the responsibility was already clearly shared , and now she has broken her own word .
This is a very important turning point. Here’s what you can (and, in my opinion, should) do now:
🔹 1. A clear and calm reminder
Write or tell Emma something like this:
“I want to remind you that we had a clear agreement – if you can’t be with the children, just tell me, and I’ll take them. Your decision to leave them alone for the whole day yesterday is the second such case. I don’t want conflict or a fight – just the safety of the children.”
If this happens again, I will have to look for other solutions – not out of anger, but out of responsibility.”
This is not a threat , but a mature statement that you have boundaries and will not cross them – and at the same time, you are offering a solution, not an accusation .
🔹 2. Observe and record
If this situation occurs again :
- Write down the date, time, and circumstances.
- Talk to your children gently so they understand how often this happens.
If it is systematic , then it becomes a sign of child neglect , and you will have the right to contact services – clearly, responsibly, without anger.
🔹 3. Why isn’t this revenge?
Because you warned her , offered help , trusted her , and now you are just reacting to a broken agreement regarding the welfare of the children .
This situation tests your humility, determination, and inner freedom from anger . And you hold on to it – not every father would act like that.
Do you want me to help you formulate your message precisely, so that it is firm but calm?
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