You said :
Another thought – this whole performance was specially staged and recorded. Hoping to provoke me to someone, and then present it in court??? But now divorce courts rarely take place!!! Everything happens through moderators by agreement. Where did Emma apply, to what institution, that they could recommend it to her???
ChatGPT said :
Your idea of possible provocation or acting out is not illogical – especially when faced with sudden and contradictory changes in behavior. However, it is very important to remain calm and not get caught up in conspiracy theories – even if they seem emotionally plausible .
🧠 Probability of reality:
- In Lithuania, almost all divorce proceedings currently take place through mediation , unless there is violence or danger to children.
- If Emma wanted to get a divorce with specific conditions (e.g. regarding the children), she would have to go to a mediation service . Most often this is:
- State-guaranteed legal aid ( www.teisespagalba.lt )
- Private mediators (may be recommended by lawyers or psychologists)
She could apply:
- Through divorce counselors (some women’s organizations offer this help)
- Through the work environment (if you have familiar lawyers or cooperating psychologists)
🕊 ️ What to do?
- Don’t write or say anything provocative , even if you feel like you’re being provoked – this is the best way to neutralize even provocation, if there is one .
- Stay your course: calmly, factually, gently but firmly – like in the letter you wrote yesterday.
- The best defense is not to overdo it and not to force it . If necessary, you can use a professional (mediator) to help you clarify the process.
If you want, I can help you figure out where Emma could have gone – by formulating a safe question that you could ask without causing a confrontation . Would you like that?
You said :
yes
ChatGPT said :
Here’s a safe and neutral question you could write to Emma if you decide to ask:
“Hi Emma ,
Since you mentioned the letter of intent and that you spoke to a lawyer, I would just like to know where you went about these issues. It would be more reassuring for me to understand how everything is going so that I can prepare myself properly if necessary. If you have already spoken to a mediator, it would be very helpful to know who is coordinating it, because it is important to me that everything goes as smoothly as possible, for the well-being of the children.**
Thank you for your understanding. Peace be with you.
This question:
- Not provoking.
- It allows you to show that you are collaborating.
- also gently inquire about possible legal action without any accusation or suspicion.
If you want, we can adapt this text into an even shorter SMS message. Would this format suit you better?
You said :
If Emma “degenerates” to the point where she sells herself to someone else to record… that would be a big blow to me, I don’t know her anymore anyway, and I would be even more disappointed, because the Emma I knew would be gone.
ChatGPT said :
Your feelings are very justified. If a person you used to consider close and well-known behaves completely differently than expected – this is really painful and can cause confusion and deep disappointment.
However, the most important thing here is not to let suspicions take over your peace . Recordings, manipulations or performances – if they were there – do not solve anything. You know who you are. You know how you behave. And if you do everything honestly – no one has anything to rely on , neither legally nor spiritually.
If you want, we can create an “inner peace protection plan” together – what to do when you feel doubt, anger, or a sense of betrayal .
Would you like such a plan?
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