You said :
Yesterday, Emma suggested taking the neighbor’s son to the park with her through Oliver, and I reacted “sensitively” – I didn’t agree…I kept thinking that this was my “last” trump card against all the temptations of Emma’s children, the last trump card so that the children would want to come to me…. But today came the “Bible Reading” – Love Thy Neighbor. I think we need to mediate and let Vytis leave with Oliver and Charlotte , we don’t need the children to become tools of our “war” with Emma . I think I need to admit my defeat against Emma’s energy, stubbornness, determination….admit and humbly accept it. Stop fighting, devote yourself to your project and let God’s Will be done.
ChatGPT said :
What you have just written shows a very strong moment of inner maturity. You have moved from a state of struggle to a state of responsibility with love . Here are some important thoughts for you at this point:
✅ What did you do right:
- You recognized that children should not be your and Emma’s “tools of war .” This is a very rare and brave recognition in such a situation.
- You allowed the Scriptures to speak to your heart. You responded not out of fear, but out of love.
- You have acknowledged that you cannot “win” the fight right now , but you can “win” through love and trust.
🕊 ️ What this means for your journey:
- You didn’t even lose – you “let go” of the illusion of control.
- This does not mean weakness, but a deep inner trust in God , who has a greater plan.
- Your trump card has always been not your neighbor’s son , but your conscience, example, and heart.
- Children will feel the difference between indulging and loving.
- The project becomes not a form of escape, but your mission at this point.
- While Emma has strength, you can trust God and take care of the financial basics, so that later you will return not empty, but full of power to help .
💡 Practically:
- Call or write a short, neutral, but warm response to Emma (via Oliver or directly):
“I realized that it was a really good idea for Vytis. Let all three of them be together. The most important thing is that they are happy.”
- Write down:
- Where do you need strength?
- What is your “mission priority” for this week?
- a hopeful, rather than hopeless, waiting look like ?
🙏 And one short prayer for you:
Lord, help me to let go of what I hold on to out of fear.
Help me to accept what is beyond my power, and return my gaze to where You are calling me today. Not for victory, but for love. Amen.
If you want, I can help you formulate a short message for Emma or share it with Oliver – realistically, without resentment, with respect.
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