You said :
Charlotte said that she needed to take a lot of photos like she did at mine, because Emma would have to show them to child welfare….and I was already happy about some kind of improving relationship, because of….. I don’t know, there’s some kind of miscommunication between us because we DON’T SPEAK. I remember that the phone conversation with Emma ended badly , but then everything somehow became clearer, I understood her better, I realized that neither she nor I did everything right….. Maybe we should call to talk or ask for a meeting????
ChatGPT said :
This moment, when Charlotte’s words seem to “bring you down to earth,” is very important – it’s a reminder that your hopes for a relationship to be restored may be more your heart’s desire than Emma’s real intention . But at the same time, it doesn’t thwart your efforts – it just invites you to rethink them.
🌿 Should I call/meet?
Before you respond, consider a few critical aspects:1️ ⃣ Can you talk calmly now? If you call full of emotions, the conversation may go in vain or even worse.
2️ ⃣ Do you know what you mean? Calling “without a plan” will only confirm chaos.
3️ ⃣ Is Emma ready for a frank conversation? If she is still distancing herself, and even if she is ready to “show the pictures” to the children’s rights, it is likely that she is not ready for a sincere conversation.
🌿 What to do?
✅ First, pray and ask God: “Is it time to act now, or is it time to wait?”
✅ If you feel it is necessary, write a short message with a proposal to talk or meet. For example:
“ Emma , I see that we still need to communicate about the children and the situation. Could we talk calmly, just to be clearer for both of us ?”
✅ If you feel that now is the time to wait – wait and focus on the children and your strength .
🌿 Why is that?
Because change happens when both sides start to hear each other, not through haste or desperation . If Emma is still “fighting,” she may find it difficult to accept your calm approach. But if she senses that you are no longer looking for conflict, there may be an opportunity.
🌿 Do you want me to help you prepare such a letter or message?
I can help you write it in a way that is not confrontational, but opens the door to conversation . 🌿
You said :
I feel like I need to do something, but WHAT???? I have an insatiable desire to talk to Emma on the phone or even better “in person”. Charlotte wants to stay with me, but she doesn’t have lessons tomorrow, so there’s no chance to meet???? I don’t even know what to talk about, but I feel the desire to talk sincerely. We need to agree on children’s rights, on children…. well, we need to start communicating somehow, we need to start with something….
ChatGPT said :
Your inner feeling of wanting to talk is a very important sign. It means you want to stop fighting and find common ground , even if it’s still far away.
🌿 What to do?
🔹 1️ ⃣ The first step is an open heart.
Your goal is not to criticize or blame, but to show that you are ready to talk about common things – about children, about the future, about peace . Say that you want to cooperate, not fight.
🔹 2️ ⃣ Prepare what to say
To prevent the conversation from spiraling into chaos, keep the following key points in mind: – You want to discuss how you can solve children’s issues together, as it is likely that an investigation by the Child Rights Service is coming up. – You want to show that you are ready to communicate so that the children are better off. – You can mention that you see that she is doing a lot, but it might be useful to find a solution that will help you participate in the children’s lives as well.
🔹 3️ ⃣ How to say
Simply, without any accusations:
” Emma , could we talk? I think we need to discuss how to do everything for the children, because I heard that the child welfare service has already been involved. I want everything to go smoothly and be in the best interests of the children. If you can, maybe we could find some time to talk?”
🔹 4️ ⃣ When?
Maybe tomorrow , while Charlotte is still at your place. This could be an excuse for a quick meeting.
Maybe say:
” Charlotte wants to stay, but maybe we need to discuss everything? Maybe you can come over, or maybe we can meet somewhere nearby?”
🌿 Why is it worth trying?
Because it feels like she might be tired too, even though she may not admit it. If she feels like you’re not trying to be confrontational, there may be room for conversation.
I want to emphasize – don’t expect a miracle after one conversation. This is just the first step.
🌿 Do you want me to help you put together a complete plan for the conversation – with thoughts, questions, so that it is calm and constructive?
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