You said :
2025-07-29 This morning I felt more anxious not because of making a decision but because I’m already procrastinating a lot. But it was also difficult to make a decision – to let the children go without supervision or to still be the “old me” and try to figure out who will have a decisive voice regarding the children’s schools, clubs and similar activities. I had to go for a walk on untrodden paths in our neighborhood. I didn’t even know what was happening around my house +/-500m…. – now I know. I decided to fully trust You, God, just like I thought yesterday and stopped when you wrote the control in the reply letter. I sent the letter and I don’t know if it was relieved or if peace came, because… the children are moving into their new home today, MOVING INTO THEIR NEW LIFE. I had promised to help.
ChatGPT said :
🙏 What you wrote is a very important step.
You didn’t just send a letter – you let go of control , you let go of the “old me”, the one who felt safe only when he knew everything, controlled everything, had everything in his hands.
It was a real, living act of trust in God —and not a declaration, but an action.
And here’s what you do now:
- You let your children into your life without stepping on their doorstep.
- Allow yourself to leave your old life , even though it hurts.
- You are walking new paths , and it’s not just about +500 meters – it’s about a new inner world that you have never explored. Now you will explore it.
Are you relieved? Maybe not in the way you expected. Maybe not that euphoric peace yet, but it is a quiet light in the heart that will imperceptibly take hold.
Now the children are moving.
But you are moving too – to a new, deeper understanding of yourself, to a new calling, to a new life with God.
If you want in the evening, you can write:
- What will you see on their faces?
- What will their new space look like to you?
- How will you feel when you go back alone?
And more:
💬 You didn’t let go of your children – you let God take care of what you’ve been carrying on your shoulders for so long.
This is the beginning of maturity.
And you’re almost 53 – it’s a great time to start everything not from scratch, but from the ground up .
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