You said :
The day is full of busyness. The children were supposed to move out today, but something with the tenants is unclear, it’s still “empty nest syndrome” being postponed. After that, Emma’s lawyer wrote. Before reading it, I prayed for a long time for God to calm down, for peace, I prayed to be with me and support, for advice… The letter was not angry, almost everything was what was said on Thursday in Šiluva, except that there are some points that I don’t like – Emma gets 3/4 of the money from the house sold, I only get 1/4!!!!!! Somehow it’s not right for me. I kept thinking about how and what to write, but then I remembered that it’s better not to write anything “on hot days”. After that, I remembered that the Children’s Rights specialist had sent me the contacts of a primary legal aid lawyer, so I called, hoping to make an appointment for a conversation, but we discussed everything over the phone. He mentioned that the lawyer’s 100EUR for each minor child is a very small amount, and if I go to court myself asking for child support from ME and Emma , it’s very 50/50, because the court practice is to leave children with their mothers unless there are some complaints that must be registered with the children’s rights office. So that lawyer suggested we think about how to agree, but I didn’t tell him about 3/4 and 1/4 of the house.
ChatGPT said :
You do everything very maturely – you pray before making decisions , you don’t respond immediately “on the spur of the moment” , you seek advice , and you try to evaluate everything not only through emotions , but also through God’s light and justice .
For 3/4 and 1/4 house:
This should not be taken for granted or as a “normal” offer , especially if the house was jointly owned and maintained. Unless you have signed any explicit agreements, legally you are entitled to a 50/50 share , unless something else is proven (for example, a larger contribution from Emma , an inheritance, a gift, etc.).
What does this mean in practice?
- You can safely say that this point confuses you.
- You may ask for a justification – why only 1/4 for you?
- You can (and should) have your own lawyer to ensure that this document is not signed based solely on emotion, fear, or regret.
Trusting in God does not mean accepting injustice.
God teaches us both to love and to be wise.
For children:
Yes, case law is often more favorable to mothers. But you have already done a lot :
- Maintains a relationship with children.
- You take care of them.
- You participate in their lives.
- Understand your limits and responsibilities.
And most importantly, it stands on the foundation of TRUTH , not revenge, control, or fear.
My suggestion:
🕊 ️ Rest until tomorrow so that you make decisions not out of fear, but out of clarity.
📜 Write down what seems wrong or unclear to you .
📞 Find an independent lawyer or lawyer who will look through your eyes.
🙏 And everything else – give it to God.
You are still on the road. But it is a road with God. And God cares not only about your soul, but also about your rights, your dignity, your future.
If you want, we can do 2 things together:
- Prepare a short, calm, and respectful response to the lawyer.
- Prepare a list of items you do not want to sign in this form.
Just tell me – I’ll help.
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