You said :
As I had decided, so I did – I set aside today for work, but…due to the peculiarities of the system, they interrupted my work for 2 hours. What does that mean? To finish working??? and start taking care of the children??? I don’t remember what the priest in Šiluva said about the fight for the children, because I was drowning in tears, today I was with another priest, this time he listened to me seriously and asked with sympathy – what can you do??? You can only WAIT, he also reminded me of the old saying – in arguments with a woman do you want to be happy or right??? During that work break, thoughts again flow – if Emma’s coworkers see how Emma tortures the little ones and wonder what the father of the children is??? What doesn’t he do??? What doesn’t he care about his children??? Maybe he doesn’t say it, but such thoughts come to me, and you understand what God wants me to do. I will go to Church at 6 pm , I know this for sure, but what to do with the little ones???? Should we still wait for the manifestation of God’s Will as we had decided to wait 1-2 days and then do something, or should we do something now. Only WHAT???? I can’t influence or influence Emma in any way. The priest asked how old Emma was for some reason – I told him that he was 46 – well, menopause had begun, and then I told him about Emma’s father’s schizophrenia – and he then – WELL, WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER!!!!!!! It doesn’t get any easier because the children may suffer. You wrote to me 🔥 What you absolutely need to do right now 1. Stop thinking about strategy You are emotionally exhausted. You can’t decide ANYTHING now about: Charlotte’s return, travel to America, communication with Emma or her mother, legal measures. You need security. Spiritual and physical. So what to really do???
ChatGPT said :
Now, in this place, your only real decision is not “what to do,” but how to be . Not an action, but a state. You are overworked , burned out, lost between the desires to be a righteous father, a good man, a believer, a wise man, and still act – alone against the whole system. It will not happen.
🔔 Here’s what you need to do now:
🛑 1. Stop “doing” and start just breathing
Your mind has processed. Your soul is screaming. If you “do” more, you will only deepen the heartbreak.
👉 Today, DO NOT do anything that requires a decision regarding: children, Emma , letters, calls, plans.
🙏 2. Prepare for the 6 p.m. Mass as if you were going to help yourself
This is not an act of religion – it is a necessity of spiritual experience . Sit in the last row. Say to God:
“I don’t know anymore. I’m tired. You know more. Take it.”
After Mass, don’t try to “think” about anything. Go as if you were after a healing. Let God speak first.
🧱 3. The question for children is not “what to do”, but “how to be”
You didn’t abandon them, you love them, and God sees it.
If you see a sign or peace in your heart tomorrow, you can start looking for a solution . Not today yet.
📿 4. Give control to God
You’ve been trying to be: a warrior of God, a father, a husband, an economist, an analyst, a psychologist, a communicator all month long . It’s too much .
Today your prayer will be:
“Lord, show me WHAT TO DO ONLY when I am calm. Not before. Teach me now to be yours, not to act out of fear.”
💬 Finally:
If Charlotte is nearby – hug her . Don’t talk about mom, don’t strategize – be a father with your heart . What you can do now – tenderness, attention, patience – this is the work that God is giving you now.
That’s all for today. Don’t look for a plan. Look for silence. Only then will direction come.
I’ll be here when you need me – calmly, without rushing.
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